What happens is for the good!

Difficult to believe, right?


Well, yes, certainly, I myself didn't believe in this for quite sometime...well now, certainly YES!!

Often we hold on to something very tightly, we don't want to let it go...ever. 'Coz we think that was the best thing that ever happened to us, ever!

And in most cases, if you are among unfortunates, such as me, we don't end up getting those things what we long for...usually never.

Its undoubtedly very heart breaking. Our heart weeps, we
long to get it back...we have all kinds of dreams, day dreaming as well as subconsciously...thinking, what if we had it?

Well my friend, let it go. Let it go, for two reasons; the first, its about destiny, it wasn't meant for us.
And secondly, it was definitely for the good, and much more better things are bound to happen. Trust your instincts.


When I say, it was destiny, I don't mean that we should just leave everything on destiny, try your best, give it your one hundred percentage, let out your soul into your efforts; but still if you don't get it, it was definitely not meant for you. Luck didn't favour you, because it has better treasures in store for you in the near future.

I have a shaky kind of faith; after my first awakening incident, I got firmly latched onto this belief. When a second incident happened, of a kind that I mentioned above, I let it go thinking its for the better, but soon after when something better was not happening, I started loosing faith in this concept (shaky belief...... what I call it).

When the awakening comes, it blows your mind. There are things when you never thought of, as you saw "all green" in what you wanted, you realise them now, awe struck. Very soon my second awakening came, and recently after again a period of shaky faith, my third major awakening came pretty quickly, and so I was compelled to write this down. I will now always read this blog, whenever my shaky periods come back and haunt me.

Supermacy

"Oh! That's the ant hill I can crush by my foot!"

Yes, true! 'Coz you don't have the stature to look upto mountains, and so settle for ant hills.

Many people I came across have the above definition of taking control. In life we are always amid two pavements, one above us and one below. That is we are always younger/ smaller/ less skilled/ junior/ less knowledgeable/ subordinate/ etc from someone and on the other hand senior/ bigger/ larger / wealthier/ etc from somebody else.

Its a great thing to be senior to someone, you give a chance to somebody to look upto you, to respect you, to follow your footsteps. But to be bossy about it, to try to control, and/or emphasize control is not justified. Just to conquer and crush the ant hill you are capable of doesn't Rationalize.

Leaders and seniors ( yes they are not the same) should try to nurture their ant hills, and all of them, not just the ones that they can't crush because they know they need those to make their reign a success.

A friend of mine was working with an organization for the sake of work experience. She had already got another better job. But her manager was a leader with beautiful ideology, and she found herself working for him and not for the company or the project. Her manager's behavior made the inner employee within her rise.

Help build the ant hills under you, one day they might come handy in times of crisis, with their underground food storage!

Attraction

"What makes you click?" He asked brushing his leg against mine, "Definitely not this..." I thought, reserving my leg and faking a shy smile.

"Well there are many factors...."and I listed out a confusing and self contradictory list of factors.

Attraction is a vague subject, and I have never found a perfect answer in this field. Usually we have criterion lists for each and everything around, but our decision making power just some how gets quicken in the vicinity of a person we are attracted to.

Many people judge attractiveness by skin tone, height and other such bodily features. Most people find people with fairer skin tone to theirs attractive. Many other are obsessed with other bodily features such as eyes lips hair and such endless list.

The funny part I find is, we usually have an ideal list on our list regarding attractiveness. While there are some people who have absolutely zero matching features with our list but there is some "X"

factor about them that draws us towards them.

Like some body who hates smokers, and gets attracted to a smoker and with the plans of making him quit eventually gets married!

So attraction depends on timings, maybe chemistry or maybe stars!!